Dates are an essential part of any relationship, whether it's with your spouse, family, or friends. To maintain a strong connection, it's important to prioritize going out together every so often. However, the task of finding a suitable location and deciding what to do can often be frustrating and daunting. Planning every date requires careful consideration, such as selecting a date and location and deciding whether to improvise or plan every detail in advance. I once received advice from a wise woman who suggested setting aside at least one evening a week for a date with your spouse. As someone who values quality time as a love language, I thoroughly enjoy these moments. However, my husband and I struggle with the planning aspect. We each want the other person to take charge, resulting in me usually planning the date while my husband becomes the designated driver.

For those who enjoy dining out, the abundance of restaurant options makes it relatively easier. However, for individuals like myself who don't particularly enjoy eating out, the frustration only grows. Recently, we implemented a new system where we settle our decision through a game of rock-paper-scissors, and the loser is responsible for planning the date. I understand that some of you out there genuinely enjoy the planning process and don't mind it at all. But for those who find it frustrating and even to the point of considering staying home, I have compiled a list of date night ideas specifically for New York City.

1. Dumbo: This beautiful waterfront location offers various seating areas and walkways. You can bring your own food and enjoy a picnic at the tables or simply sit by the water, watching the ferries and boats pass by. Take a stroll along the charming paths, and after your time in Dumbo, you can dine at one of the nearby restaurants or hotels.
2. Central Park: Depending on the time of day, there are numerous activities you can enjoy in Central Park. Take a leisurely walk through the park, reveling in its breathtaking views. Have a delightful picnic on the grass or even try boating on the lake.
3. Barnes and Noble: Bookworms will particularly love this option. Explore the beautifully arranged library and browse through the latest books on the market. Your date might even surprise you with a few new additions to your collection. Take a seat in one of the cozy reading areas, and some locations even offer refreshments for purchase.
4. Governors Island: This spot holds a special place in my heart. It's best to visit in the morning as the ferry operates at specific times during the day. Make sure to check the schedule beforehand. Enjoy a scenic ferry ride to this former prison turned island getaway. You can purchase drinks and rent bikes to explore the waterfront. There's also a relaxing area with hammocks, perfect for taking a break.
5. Car Picnic: This idea originated from one of my dates with my husband when it unexpectedly started pouring rain. Our plan for a beach picnic was ruined, so we decided to park the car as close to the water as possible and had our picnic inside. It turned out to be a lovely and unique experience that we ended up doing again.
6. Recreate a Memorable Date: This idea holds a nostalgic touch. Choose one of the memorable dates you've had with your spouse and recreate it. You can order the same drinks and food as before or create new memories in that same location.

Additionally, there are some classic options to consider, such as bowling, batting cages, ping pong, mini-golf, and game rooms.

These are just a few ideas to inspire your next date night in New York City. I hope this encourages you to plan your next date soon!